Our six year old son entered our bedroom and saw us in the act
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We are married for eight years. Recently, when me and my wife were having sexual intercourse in our bedroom, all of a sudden, our six year old son entered our bedroom and saw us in the act. It was so awkward and embarrassing. We didn’t know how to handle the situation. Can you guide us how to handle such a situation so that it doesn’t cause any damage?
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First and foremost, I advise you to protect your privacy whenever you are having love play by shutting your bedroom door from the inside. This will stop anything similar from happening. If a situation like this happens by accident, it would be best to ask the youngster to leave the room ‘gently yet firmly’. Refrain from yelling, yelling at the youngster, or expressing any other strong emotions. Recall that he didn’t mean to bother you, so there’s no need to chastise him. After he leaves the bedroom, you can walk outside and talk to your child after getting dressed appropriately. You may explain to the youngster that you were enjoying a moment of sexual pleasure together as a loving married couple. However, since it’s private, you felt uneasy. Give the youngster the freedom to express his thoughts and feelings as well as ask any questions he may have. Recall that damage is unlikely to occur if this kind of unintentional exposure is managed with caution and transparency.