I have tried to get intimate with my fiancé, I have not had any feelings
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I am a 27-year-old woman and I am a virgin. I am about to get married. My problem is that every time I have tried to get intimate with my fiancé, I have not had any feelings for him. I almost feel numb down there, as if there’s no feeling at all. What should I do to get aroused? Do I have a problem or is this normal before getting married?
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It’s definitely not typical. Both parties should find sexual activity delightful. What is preventing you from moving forward? Psychological factors might be involved. I advise you to experiment with masturbating or vaginal stimulation to observe how your body reacts. Verify your hormone levels. Consult a specialist to determine the exact nature of the issue.