Hi Everyone! I’m new here. Just thought of seeking an advice on the current issuebI am facing relative to my married life.

I’m married for less than a year. On the early stage of our marriage, I found out that my husband is having an affait with his officemate. I confronted him and he admitted. We agreed to separate for some time. And then we got back together. Things seemed to go well. Until just a few days a go, I found another evidence that he’s still not over the affair. I found a letter in his bag (from the mistress). It was given to him that very same day. The letter says how thankful the mistress was that God let them meet and that she’s sure that she won’t cry and be hurt anymore from any heartache. I felt really numb while I was reading it. That same night, my husband told me he’ll work overtime. Apparently, he didn’t go on OT and I think they were together.

I don’t know how to handle this. I really can’t think well. I want to confront him again but I don’t know how and what to tell. I haven’t talked to anyone about this yet. I’ve been really crazy the past days researching for tips on how to handle this one. Until I came across this forum and decided to register and seek opinion.

I really hope that someone could help me know what to do next. Thank you in advance.