Hello everyone,
So I was looking for the hammer in the garage and I found his light blue bag under the work bench hidden behind some tools. When I opened the bag it was full of neatly folded women’s underwear, bras, skirts, dresses, fake life like boobs, shoes and wigs. I also found a makeup bag full of ever type of make up you could think of. I took it to the living room where he was sitting and put down at his feet. His face became instantly red and he started to say he could explain. I just walked away crying. We talked later when he brought his bag into the bedroom and he sat on the edge of the bed and told me he was a cross dresser. I thought a couple of times in the last few years I could see a bra outline under his shirt or panties above his waist line,but he always played it off. I feel like he lied to me this whole time, after 7 years of being married I don’t know what to think.I asked why he never told me and he said he didn’t tell me cause he was embarrassed and he thought I would never marry him. We have five kids now and I am afraid they will find out too. I cannot bear to think of my manly man dressed in heels and a skirt it just does not turn me on. I am attracted to him as a man not as a woman I am not a lesbian. What should I do?