While Me and my husband has been married almost 5 years and through out our marriage he has maintained a friendship with a lady that 1)he use to date 2) he dated while we where on a break (and I was pregnant). He says they are just friends someone he can talk to but he has lied about meeting her to “workout” and she has been in our home while I was at work. I feel disrespected when my husband and I are spending time together and her is texting her. I say something he feels like I am belittling him or if i ask him where he is going. He said that I don’t treat him like a man because i want to know where he is going. I’m not trying to be his mom im just trying to have a open and honest marriage. I have a problem with that women for being in my home while I’m at work. I don’t like her because of the on going lies that he tells about her. Its clear that he wont stop talking to her and that they are friends. My husband thinks I don’t trust him and he is hurt by that. He flat out said that he didn’t know if we would be together if it was not for our children. I know that no marriage is perfect but we are at a stand still in ours. I don’t want to lose this marriage or my family we have worked so hard to make it. How do I get over this friendship and except it? Texting is a different story from taking the friend to events with the rest of you friends and coworker and you wife isn’t there. Can someone PLEASE HELP ME