Ladies – I apologize registering on this forum as a guy but really needed some insight from some women since my attempts on other male forums proved to be unsuccessful. I’ve been married for 4 years and we’ve had a lovely marriage. My wife is the kind of person that can be over-friendly at times and send wrong signals. Lately however, my wife has got friendly to someone she met at work. She hangs out with him often after work and first it didn’t bother me but now it does. I spoke with her and she agreed to place some boundaries. So now she is home in the evenings but I see her texting all the time – again no lewd texts but friendly ones. She denies any emotional involvement. I looked up some material on the web about tell-tale signs to know whether your spouse is cheating and the only one that matches is she has been dressing up better the last few weeks and there’s a certain glow about her. None of the other tell-tale signs seem to match up. Apart from that, she is loving me as usual and I don’t see that she has distanced me from her at all

Hence the question – is it possible that she is maintaining two relationships and happily so??? I would like to trust her when she says she has no emotional involvement with this other guy but she’s made some mistakes in her previous relationships pre-marriage which puts some doubt in my mind about trusting her fully

Thanks!