I am a 24 year old woman i have been with my fiancé for almost 3 years. He is 10 years older. When we met he told me he had a daughter and had a picture of her on the wall and said “there’s my daughter” (looking 5 years old) so I just said how cute. I later met her and she is 17! I was shocked. A good & bad thing. He hasn’t been with her mom for years, but she is 7 years younger than me. Its very awkward, and i don’t think she likes e because i am very shy and quiet. i feel like wed probably have a lot in common, but im too shy. Anyhow, After a few months he told me he had another daughter who hes never met. She’s 18. I didn’t think much of it bcause she is out of state. One is kind of in our life, and the other not ever. Now with all the facebook, people find people and they did. Now i’m feeling uncomfortable and anxious dealing with it. My fiancé knows how i feel and we try to stay open minded. Me and the fiancé have a 10 month old baby and have talked about marriage and our lives together. I can’t seem to deal with having to explain to my son when he’s older that he has 1/2 sisters & it’s all very overwhelming. I love him, and feel bad for not being able to control my jealousy and anxiety. I don’t know how to feel. And need helpful advice. Please!