It hurts a lot and bleeds when I have sex.
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I am 21. Married three months ago. We are very good. But we are not one yet. I am the reason for that. My friends told me that it hurts a lot and bleeds when I have sex. I am very afraid of that. I am tensing up as we approach. Although he says courage, it is not because of me. I am afraid that he will get bored and leave me. Give the solution.
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friends are afraid that someone will say something, how can you not go ahead! There may be some pain initially while having sex. But it doesn’t have to be for everyone. Also there is no need for blood. Putting your fear aside, it won’t be too much of a problem if you both slowly help each other, understand each other and stimulate each other through foreplay. Cohesiveness does not result in fusion. If you forcefully try, the pain will be extreme and the chances of bleeding will increase.
Why do you need to fear when you are brave enough! If you want to use lubric acting gels, KY jelly, lubric gel in the beginning, the pain will be unknown. But if you continue to be afraid like this, you are really in danger of getting bored!