Hi all, I (25M) have been with my girlfriend (25F) for about two years. At the beginning sex was ok, never great but good enough that I didn’t care much. Then, about a year ago, she started rejecting me all the time. She did not only reject me when I initiated sex, but also did not want kisses and would get upset with any kind of foreplay I tried to do. The very few times we did it, she did not put any effort at all and it was very bad, to the point I didn’t enjoy it. At some points she even told me that it looked like all I wanted is that, when that couldn’t be further from the truth: I really love her, I view my future with her and all that.

Nowadays she tries to initiate it, to kiss me and all that but I’ve been rejected so many times that I don’t even feel like kissing her anymore.

Has anyone gone through something similar? What are your thoughts?