Whenever my husband passes by me or bends over to pick up anything, I can’t help but smack his butt. He says that I shouldn’t do it because he is a man, but I can see the lustful expression on his face. Once, I stopped smacking his butt for 2 weeks, just to test him. My husband purposefully started brushing past me and purposefully bending over in front of me frequently. Finally, I took pity on him and resumed smacking his butt. I fantasize about spanking him on my lap. I get wet just by imagining his butt squirming over my lap. Is this desire normal for a female? is there any psychological problem with me or my husband? Because, as far as I know, a man likes to smack his wife’s butt, whereas in my case, it’s the other way round.