How to break the ice with this scared married woman?
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After her fight with her husband she has changed completely. We had few conversations. She was scared to have physical relationship with me and that is why she does not want to talk to me.
I know majority of Readers may say forget her and move on, but let us see the picture from a different angle. She was ready to spread her legs for me, a few months back but her normal text (just Hi/Hello) was caught and that made her scared.
She loves to chat with me and even spend time with me when her hubby is out of town and there is sex hunger in her eyes.
Iknow Patience can win any battle.
Any of you Buddies, have idea to break this Ice again. Please share
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She is scared because she knows that all you want is sex, that you’re not ready to take her and her kids responsibility should she divorce her husband.
You mentioned in your previous question that her chats with you were discovered by her husband. Very sure that her husband smelled the rat and threatened her with divorce. She wants to maintain her marital status intact, either with her husband or someone like you. She also wants to secure the future of herself and her kids financially which isn’t possible without a spouse cause by your narration she doesn’t seem to be financially independent.
Now coming to your question about HOW TO BREAK THE ICE ?
She wants commitment, you want just sex. If you can offer her what she wants, she may give you what you want, else try another woman.