I am attracted to married women. How to control this?
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I am 21 years old male. I am attracted towards mature ladies and cannot control it.. My aunt cares for me affectionately and I am attracted to her and masturbate every night.
I know its wrong but cant control my emotions. I fear that I may touch her out of my control and this will lead to mis-understanding between us.Please give a strong suggestion
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Men can attract to married women, as this is men’s nature and do masturbation. If you are thinking that you are going to touch her then you need to avoid her interaction, as that will surely lead misunderstanding and your reputation may go down.
As you know that it is wrong to get attracted towards your auntie so you can easily give up your habit of not to look at her. However, best way is, do not visit her place often or if she lives with you than avoid her.
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There is nothing wrong with you my dear. Word of caution is NEVER try to touch her or any married lady unless you are sure that she is wanting it as well. These kind of fantasies for a 21yr old is pretty normal. A lot of us including me had fantasies about older women, MILF as we call it.
The reasons could be you would feel safer with a married lady than a spinster. The older the woman the more mature she would be & hence able to handle & channelise better all the sexual energy you are wanting to unleash while you fuck them. A girl of your age might get too scared or just refuse if you are wild & insistent kind. The mature body, curves, proportionately developed breasts, ass etc are more alluring and fantasy figures than a demure young nymphet. Of course these are very personal choices & many could fantasise & jerk off to a sexy 19yr old than MILF in her late 30s or mid 30s. How old is your aunt? See most of us have such fantasies, there is nothing wrong as long as you don’t act on your desires.
Your aunt could thinking about you like a son or a little kid, imagine if you tried to touch or feel her body or her breasts how aghast she would be. Hence just restrict them to fantasies & you can continue jerking off to your sexy aunt but DO NOT try anything else with her. You will grow out of this within some years & that time you would laugh at yourself for having such thoughts. So just chill & try to think more of same age girls around you. Who knows a sexy hot chick around your age could just sweep you off your feet if you start looking around. Hope this helps.