I am Ruwin.

I am a married male, 34 years old, and a professional in Finance Management in a public limited company. My wife is 32 years old and a housewife.

I fantasize about having a MMF swap, but my wife feels hesitation with any stranger. So I planned to involve my male friend, who is 33, married and having a kid, also working in another public limited company. He belongs to a rural area but is staying in the same city since 2008. His wife is deadly religious type, typical village girl and is 12th Pass and also belongs to a rural area, though he is a Graduate.

He is frank with me so I directly asked him to be involved with us in MMF. Firstly, he ignored us saying that can’t do this, because he respects me like an elder brother. But when I again approached after one month, he said, “Let me think about it, give me some time”.

We don’t meet daily, but twice a month or monthly but discuss on the phone almost daily about anything. I approached him two more times but he is not responding properly, should I avoid him or should I approach him again?

Second option: Another male, 30 years old and is a 12 Std. pass out, who is unmarried and is son of our relative, also belongs to a rural area and is searching for a job in our city.

I approached him many times for MMF and after a long discussion, he became comfortable with us. Then one day my wife gave me a handjob with him on the same bed but there was no sex due to some hasitation in his mind. Due to this there was no recharge during our next hour session.

Now due to being a relative’s son, my wife is feeling some insecurity in having sex with him and also confused thinking about the privacy among our other relatives in future.

Actually, both of these guys were surprised to learn about couple swapping & MMF lifestyle. I think, due to lack of knowledge of this type of phenomenon thaat exists in our society, they are not responding.

We are confused, thinking whether the son of our relative will keep our privacy confidential? He assured us that it will be kept a secret. Please advise, which one should be selected for this act. Please share your opinions with pros & cons.

Thank you all.