How to handle the Discomfort due to my parents remarriage?
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Dear Friends
I am back on AA after almost 5 to 7 yrs. Well my parents are separated and both have remarried. My father is married to lady from his office who is younger to him and my mom married her old friend who is Muslim with wife and kids.
I am staying with my mom and her new family. I have been feeling very uncomfortable at home. Mostly due to proximity of my mom with her husband. I am not sure why I feel so much complex about the situation.
Otherwise we are living our life well. But to share bedroom along with my mom and her new husband has become rather embarrassment for past few years.
How to deal with this?
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You should accept that it is her right to share the bed with her husband and you should accept the reality that they will be close with each other as they are husband and wife. You should feel bad if she fails to play the role of responsible mother but as long as she loves you and play her duty well you have nothing to worry. This will take some time as it is new arrangements for you so give your enough time so you get well adjust with them. If you wish then you can talk to your mom about your feelings discomfort so she can do things to make you feel good about it