Our Threesome in the past is creating problems for me. How to control my Wife?
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I got a job overseas. I have joined the job. The problem is that me and my wife had done 3some with a guy who is married too. We had good Sessions since last 1 year.
Both the couple know all things. But we have not done swapping. We had same room same partner sex once. But due to some issues both females are not ready to swap but ready for 3some so we paln and arrange the 3some event without knowledge of others wife.
Me and my wife and that guy had sex without the knowledge of his wife. She is also ready for 3some with me. But due to job I left my country. Now that guy is in contact with my wife personally and they are trying to hide all this from me and his wife too.
As I am abroad, I have some limitations to control them. But I know they are in contact and so feeling insecure and cheated too. Though they haven’t meet yet as per her.
What should I do now to keep them apart and get back my wife. I love her so much that I can’t see her cheating me.
Please suggest some good ways to control her.
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Well, you should have had a proper detailed talk with each other in the initial days of experimenting.
Now the options have limited rays of hope to work according to you. What you can do is
Talk to her and ask her to answer you honestly and you won’t be angry for that on her. Tell her that you won’t get angry and feel bad if she is involved but you are feeling bed if she is lying.
Now whatever she replies you should believe on her even if she says No ( if you are pretty sure then you need to catch her redhanded) and if she says yes then you should even accept her as you were outside country and she was already deprived for sex, and she had a option to cool down her cravings.
It’s just you who should accept her feeling as its not her mistake completely due to your earlier life style.
It’s just she had option and she did but didn’t tell you as she was scared of you.
The other option is to get apart which is a ridiculous one I think.
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There is only one way and that is too take your wife with you where you live so she is with you all the time and you do not need to worry about anything and if that not possible then believe your wife otherwise your married life will be spoiled because of your insecurities. They might be meeting without your knowledge but as long as you do not have any evidence about their meeting you cannot blame your wife just because your guts are telling you so.
Moreover, this is something you should be ready for as threesome brings such complications so you have to be ready to face them before you guys choose to have threesome. He is someone who fucked your wife so many times so you should not be surprised if he fucks your wife in your absence as this is the well you both have dig with each other’s approval so do some arrangement so you can take your wife with you to get a permanent solution until that believe your wife fully that they have not met yet and will not meet in your absence and focus on your job which is a new one and needs your attention.