Should I go ahead for my first Gay encounter?
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Hello All,
I am Nachiket, aged 24 years, unmarried boy. You may think this as weired, but it’s a fact.
Through facebook, I came in contact with one boy. He is from the same city as me. My facebook ID is fake, so no worries about privacy.
Actually I am bisexual. I am still virgin. I had not had any gay encounter till now. I used to prefer as Top. Always I had a dream about fucking a bottom. That guy who I met is a bottom. He sent me his body pics. His body is so sexy like a girl, curvy ass too…He also like to dress up like a girl.
Like me, he also wants to have experience of gay encounter and wants to try all sexual things with m, like foreplay, kissing, sucking and handjob. I also sent him my cock pics. He is excited to have anal sex with me. I also would like to experience sex with him once as right now I don’t have a girlfriend and want to explore sexual things at this age.
My sexual experience is zero. He is coming on Tuesday to my place to meet me. Should I go ahead for some fun with him? Is it normal? What suggestions will you give me for this first encounter? He is aged 18. What precautions should I take?
Waiting for your quick replies..as only 1 day left…….
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There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. I am very happily bisexual, and I love making love without the goals, as well as with my husband.
In your case, you are a virgin, so some people would assume that you don’t really know what you want. Having read through your post though, it seems pretty clear to me that you are very excited about meeting up with this guy, and he seems equally keen to meet you.
Let me give you one word of warning: make sure that any penetrative sex takes place using condoms. Sexually transmitted infections can be passed through penetrative sex, whether it is with one or another man, and if you do not know, 100%, that the person you are meeting is free from any sexually transmitted infections, then you would be wise to be taking precautions.
Beyond that, I would also advise you to meet up with this guy in a public place, for your own safety and his. You have only met each other on Facebook, so you don’t really know anything about each other. One of the things about social media is that you can hide all kinds of truths behind falsehood, so make sure that you get to know this guy first, before you start going off somewhere quiet with him. I’m not saying that he poses any threat to you, but it’s always better to be safe than sorry isn’t it!!!
If it turns out that he wants to penetrate you, make sure that you have plenty of lubricant on hand, and the same rules apply to a man having anal sex the first time (as the recipient), as they do for a girl who wants to experience this delightful practice. I have written plenty of advice about anal sex, and how to enjoy it without pain, so, although it was written with a goal in mind, the same fact is equally true for a guy. If you think that this may happen in the course of meeting up with this chap, and make sure you are prepared beforehand.
I don’t doubt that some people may want to condemn you because of your sexuality, but there really is nothing wrong with you, and don’t let anybody try to convince you otherwise. Nature made you the way you are, and the sooner other people can accept this, the happier the world would be.
Take care,
Love,
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Use a condom and lube when you take his penis in your ass and do the same when he asks to penetrate his asshole. You should mentally prepare yourself for the anal sex as it is not that much easy like you see in the porn so you have to be prepared for it as it might give a lot of pain.
You both should go slowly in the first meeting and it would be better if you avoid anal penetration to become more comfortable with each other on the first meeting. You both can go for foreplay, hand job and sucking. However, if you are confident that you can have anal sex with him in the first meeting then you can go ahead but you should not forget to use a condom as safety comes first than pleasure. I hope, you have read enough material on gay sex if not then do it now on the Google.
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As I write this Answer, you may have already had your first anal experience. So maybe, you will like to tell us how it went.
I have read your first question and your Profile, and these are my thoughts. You seem to have no experience in Sex and yet want to have sex, either with a man or a woman. Obviously, you find that finding a woman is cumbersome and will need time and patience before anything happens. So, what to you do? Go on to FB and look out for a Gay. You said that “I don’t have a girlfriend and want to explore sexual things at this age”.
You do not even know if you are a bi-sexual. And you want to do the penetration. If your partner is a virgin in sex like you, expect disaster. Anal sex, needs time and experience to be a successful outing. You are playing with fire. You first need a level of comfort with your partner to have gay anal sex. Inviting him to your place, without knowing anything about him and his past experiences, is not a good idea.
Such acts could leave you scarred for Life.