How to handle these tricky relationship issues?
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I am 27 years old and need some advice but not judgment. I belong to a rich business family in Delhi. I lost my virginity to my mami around 10 years back, when she came to stay at my place. Since then I am having regular sex with her whenever I get a chance.
My mami is a very outgoing lady with a very big social circle. She helped me in seducing and sleeping with many matured women from her friends to her sisters. I have a toned build with good height so have enjoyed with many bored housewives..
Now I have recently met a girl of my age. We share the same gym, and have slept together a few times. My issue is that I have slept with my girlfriend’s mom before meeting my girlfriend. She is one horny lady with whom I have even spent long weekend outstations. She knows about my relation with her daughter and is very happy about it. Her mom even tried to get physical with me whenever I go to meet my girlfriend and she sends explicit messages..
Whenever I am with my girlfriend, I feel a strange feeling of guilt mixed with lust. Should I just walk out, or should I keep enjoying with both of them?
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This sounds like a fantasy letter, but, as stranger things have happened, I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt.
First and foremost, what do you want? It seems to me like you have all the sex you want, at the click of your fingers, with a number of ladies who are both experienced in the arts of sex, and who need a fit young man to give them the kind of pleasure they’d thought was just a memory. On top of this you have a girl your own age, with whom you are having sex. Does she know you have sex with her mum? I have to assume that if she knows, she either thinks this has stopped, or she’s doesn’t mind if mum is getting hers too. Dare I say it? Maybe mum fancies a threesome, I know that sounds outrageous, but sex hungry middle aged women can shock you with their desires, and she wouldn’t be the only woman who has done this. Sexual behaviour encompasses everything you can imagine, and most likely things you never dreamt of!!!
If this girl is going to become important in your future, you WILL have to tell her what you’ve been doing, as no good relationship should be based on secrets and lies. But as for guilt, you need not feel guilty, you’re free to do what you like, eighth anyone you like, until you make a serious commitment.
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If you are serious about your relationship with your girlfriend then you should stop all sort of relationship with her mom instantly otherwise, you will be caught very soon and I am sure your girlfriend would not tolerate your misdeed with her mom. Moreover, you will not lose your girlfriend only but her mother too so best to choose your girlfriend over her mother.
If you do not want long-term relationship with your girlfriend then you may go ahead with both the women and enjoy their body. As far as guilt part is concerned, it shows that you know that you are doing wrong but you have no control over your lust. Put end to all kind of contacts with your girlfriend’s mother. If possible, meet your girlfriend outside her home. Remember that you cannot ride to horses simultaneously.
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So you are living the life of a playboy. You may ask what’s wrong with that? I would say “nothing is wrong”. Only that you are living life on the edge. If you feel like a stud, living like a gigolo, nothing wrong with that too. The problem is whether you are doing it as a profession or just for the sex.
In which case, you are living with the fear of getting caught with your pants down. What is the status of the relationship between you and your girlfriend? If she is just another conquest and one who will warm your bed for a few hours, you have no worries of her finding out about the sex you are having with her mom. Even if she does, what does it matter? All you need to do is find someone else. The problem will arise, if you are serious about your relationship with her and wish to pursue it further. In which case, you would be better off telling her the truth (I don’t see you having the courage for that).
Do you have the courage and conviction to break off having sex with her mom? Never easy to do. Mature women are difficult to get rid of, when they have sex on their mind. In any case, how do you meet your girlfriend at her place and ensure that her mother is not around.
You will also find that word moves fast. If your mami, has introduced you to your girlfriend’s mother for a sexual relationship, it would be difficult to keep things under wraps. I am not being judgmental, just telling you what is possible.