Hi,

I am Rajesh, 24years unmarried male and regular visitor of this site. It gives so much knowledge on various aspects of sex related issues. Thank you so much for maintaing such a useful site. You are excellent because your moderators and editors are doing well in identifing the fake questions. I am a regular visitor of the site for the past 6 months but never tried to post a question. This is my first question on behalf of my friend who is a girl.

My friend’s name is Revathi (Name changed due to privacy), 22years, female. We both are close and best friends. She is very traditional and decent. Completed her education and marrage proposals are going on for her. Recently my friend faced an incident and shared it with me and asked for some suggestions.

The incident is:  Few days back she got a phone call from an unknown number and she attended to the call. The guy on the other end spoke very dirty things related to sex at 7’o clock in the morning. Initially he spoke in a very low voice and so my friend was unable to recognize who he is and what he is talking about. When she realized that he was talking dirty, she began scolding him on phone but the guy keeps on talking dirty words in a wild voice.

My friend is a decent girl and she has been hurt very badly by this dirty talks. Even after three days she is unable to forget that wild voice and the bad words he used on phone. She shared this incident with me and asked me how to come out from his words and wild voice which is fixed in her mind and keeps on rolling and disturbing her.

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Relation between my friend and me: we are best friends from the school days, we have no intension of love blah.. blah. We shared many things like (personl problems, family problems, happiness, suggestions, advices). She has no boyfriend and soon she will get married as marriage proposals are going on from her family members.

Please help my friend with your suggestions to get that image of the guy and his dirty words out of her mind. She is very disturbed.