I (34M) feel no love for her (32M) where do you see this going
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You can’t make her work if she doesn’t wish to. All the efforts you put in to it will be resisted strongly and may be turned against you in form of frustration and anger.
Keeping distance from her will only lead to divorce and will not solve your problem unless that’s what you are staring at..
Probably she’s in a phase of life where she feels like a failure and lacks motivation and life spirit at the same time being comfortable.
As everyone suggesting, go for counseling and get her to her normal state of being and from there you will have wonderful life ahead.
Also you can lead by example that it’s ok to be vulnerable and accepting the shortcomings of our personality is the beginning of improving ourselves for good.
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To begin with, you have written this really well, and respectfully. Which I honestly don’t find here too often.
Coming to the issue. She seems to be struggling emotionally/mentally.
These are rather classic signs.
Having said that, not everyone recognises that. And not everyone takes it well if somebody tells them there could be an issue.
So you will have to approach this sensitively. Try talking to her, very casual conversation. What’s on her mind. What’s bothering her, what would she like to do. Because you can’t possibly put counselling on the table directly.
You seem to be a good dude to me and so does she for the most part. I hope y’all are able to get past this 🙂