Why cannot I have friends who are girls?
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I am an introvert, narrow minded boy. I am very nice boy. I am good in my studies. I am always the topper in my college.
I have got a facebook account. In my Facebook account, I have got many friends near about 4000. I usually chat there with only boys, but when I send message to a girl, I do not get a reply. Also, sometimes I do not send message to a girl because I think she may block me.
When I ask my friends whether they chat with girls or not, they said that they chat with girls. When I go to their profile, I can see the girls are tagging them in their pictures post. This makes me very sad and angry. I rarely upload a picture and post an update in Facebook. I did not upload my photo yet.
I am very frustrated. How to come out of this frustration? How can I chat with girls? How can I become good friends with girls?
Please help me.
Thank you.
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Your name reminds me of a legendary actor’s character in a sci-fi movie! Anyway, that is not the point! The point is that girl don’t talk to you!
You said that a girl didn’t reply to your message! Why don’t you get reply’s from girls? Depends on what you have written to her and how well she knows you!
An element called trust, this what the girls look in for in any person! You are a topper, a good student, a very nice boy, quite nice but maybe at times you might be coming across as boring and maybe this is what prevents them from talking to you as they feel they can’t trust you enough! Being a studious student is different than being a geeko! You’re a geeko, be an all rounder! There should be a perfect blend of studies plus all round activities!
Start with normal discussions! But not the boring ones! Normal, very normal! Then say something which makes them laugh, not anything vulgar please! Make them laugh, try an interesting conversation which can hold her up, smell good (this includes your mouth odour as well!), you should seem to be interesting!
Look into the mirror and find your flaws! Work on them! Present your self well! More than that, carry yourself well! When you go people around you should feel something special! Carry an attitude with you, an aura with you and be elegant! Your choice of words should be appropriate, your thinking should stumble all, your sense of humour should make people laugh their guts out, your style should be a trend in your college and the new fashion statement, when people speak of you, they should take your name with utmost respect(this doesn’t mean you do ‘dadagiri’ on anyone), behave like a smarty and just shock and rock everyone! Ask the most beautiful girl in your college for prom! Be attractive, dance well, in short, be a complete man! Girls will surely fall for you! Take care! God bless you!
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First of all, love your life and yourself! In my opinion frankly, each person should be a narcissist because only then can you succeed but that narcissism should be within limits and moreover it should be positive!
Love yourself! Look into the mirror and choose the best look for you, which makes you look your best! Join a gym, this would help you to remain positive, healthy and fit! Go out of your room and tell your family that you wish to be an extrovert and that you will need their support! Tell them sometimes what you speak would be out of context but tell them to correct you on time and support you so that you can improve! Maintain positive relationship with your family! Start slow by communicating with them! Join a gym as I told you, go for some sports or music classes! Some foreign language classes will also do! Play sports, mingle out with all your friends, listen to peppy numbers, dance on them as an how you wish to! Watch hit sitcoms, to name a few, friends, modern family or our Indian ones like Sarabhai vs Sarabhai, Khichdi, or some funny cult films like jaane bhi do yaaro, big momma, action movies like Sylvester Stallone’s Rocky, Rambo, The Expendables or the fast and furious series or our cult classic James Bond!
Dress cool and nice! Be easy and natural! No need to make up anything! For you to attract someone, you should have a great physique, go to gym for that! Seriously watch all what I suggested above, they will help develop your personality! Especially the Indian cults like Sarabhai vs Sarabhai and Khichdi, they are laughter riots! Films like Zindagi na milegi dobaara, Rock on, dil chahta hai are amazing! Go speak with your family, observe nature, write down what you feel about anything! Love yourself and spread love! Increase your humour and be stylish! Start with what I told you first that is dialogue with your family!
Take care! God bless you!