How to handle my brother-in-law’s foot fetish?
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Hi,
My name is Huma and am new here. I just want to ask about my devar (brother in law). He is 17 at the moment and I am 25. He used to come to my place to study. One day I came from shopping and was very tired. I asked him if he could rub my feet and he agreed happily.
Next day when I was teaching him physics, he asked me if he could rub my feet again. I said okay and then next day he himself started rubbing my feet. I didn’t asked for it but I was ok with it. This went on for 2 weeks. Next day when he started again, I said that I don’t want it but he was begging me to allow him to rub my feet.
I was shocked and don’t know what to do so I said him to go as I am not feeling well. Now it has becomes his daily routine to massage my feet and if I say no he will make a sad face, and start begging me to allow him. I asked him why he want to rub my feet and he said he wanted to take care of my feet because he has a foot fetish.
He told me details about it. When I searched about it, I came to this site so I thought I should ask you people. I don’t want to make an issue in the house so am not telling my husband about it.
My Question is: Should I let him massage my feet?
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huma,
the fact that he has rubbed your feet in front of your husband doesnt means anything,it is day to day ritual in most of the households where children or younger ones press feet and legs of elders.
though in your case the boy is having a fetish which is infact a sexual one- here by no means we are doubting your intentions its just that he is a teenager you may consider him as a brother but whether you like it or not a teenager thinks mostly with his cock which is not in any way his mistake.he might be fantasying your feet in rather sexual manner in confines of his room.
as you mentioned he asked if he could kiss your feet confirms he has sexual desires towards you or atleast towards your feet.it may have started as a simple affection towards your feet but it will surely end in pure lust(i am saying this as a male who has gone through teenage and the sexual arousal/outbursts that comes with it)
you could search the site and you will find numerous teenagers having lust for their cousins aunts and other close relatives.
i personally feel you would be putting the poor boy in a situation where he would be forced to throw his morals out of the window by letting him continue.
he is a teenager he doesn’t have the maturity,you sound like a very reasonable and honest woman so it is your duty to prevent any ugly incident.
if you however decide to let him continue(due to his sad face/begging/or your shopping trips any other then sexual motives) you could observe his private parts is he aroused while rubbing your feet ? if yes,you know what to do .
best of luck 🙂
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Huma,
A fetish is about finding an object sexually arousing. It could be a woman’s panties, bra, lingerie or any part of the human body.
Your bro-in-law, aged 17, does have a severe foot fetish, more like an obsession. The good thing is that he is not alone and there are many men who worship their partner’s feet. The problem here is that he is not your partner.
The love for a woman’s feet is also coupled with the need for dominance. It is a great turn on to kiss the feet, to have your feet trampling him and in a way to worship your feet. You must be enjoying this dominance over him. You would rather prefer your husband doing this, but seems he does not.
In a comment you have said, that your husband has seen him pressing your feet. What explanation did you give? How does the foot massage take place? Does he sit on the floor at your feet? How are you dressed up when he does this? In pants or in a dress?
Make no mistake, fetish is sexual, but since he is relatively young, he cannot give full vent to this. You are partially to blame, for leading him down the rosy path. But if you are in control of yourself, then I can only say it is a harmless past-time for you.
He will kiss your feet at some time, if you allow him to continue. I am sure he masturbates thinking of your feet and imagines your feet massaging his cock. If you feel this is fine, go head. Let us know when it gets out of hand.
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