My wife is a T4 paraplegic and has been for about a year and a half. We haven’t had any sex since she became this way and recently she asked me if I’d be interested in trying to have sex and I said I’d love to. Everything seemed to be fine actually, while we were having sex I asked her if she was enjoying herself and she said she was. I thought she was enjoying it. Afterwards I asked her how she felt and she told me that she couldn’t really feel anything sexually besides me kissing on her, but that she enjoyed seeing me enjoy myself with her. This honestly hurt me a little bit as she couldn’t enjoy herself sexually and now it feels as if I just took advantage of her. I feel like a monster.