My wife and I are both 44 years of age, and have generally good health. We are non-smokers, we don’t consume alcohol. We have no health issues and we exercise frequently. We have a lot of sex. For the last 19 years, ever since we got married, she holds and presses my glands before sleeping. I fear this has caused low sensation. Our sexual frequency is 3 to 4 times a week and mostly in the mornings with lots of oral sex. Sometimes, twice a day too. Each session lasts from 45 min to 90 min. During the act, I tell my wife various fantasy stories which helps her orgasm. Without such stories she can’t get orgasm. We discovered this two years ago and so we have continued to do it. My queries are on the frequency, duration, and about this fantasising. Are we over-doing it? Could this result in problems? Also, can her holding and pressing the glands every night cause a problem?