My bf’s nana lives with him, and his mother doesn’t care about anyone else as much as his nana If things don’t go according to his wishes, then she creates chaos in the house for months.bf and his dad work 9-hour jobs, and his brother is a student.the food is only cooked for his nana or sometimes they order takeout. His dad is suffering alot but stay quiet I dont knw the reason Sometimes, even after working a 9-hour job, they cook their own food and do their own laundry. Sometimes they both get really tired after working and traveling so much. So, either they goes to sleep hungry or they asks the neighbor to cook food for them.

Family background-his mom had two brothers and a sister. His nani had some mental health issues, so she left the house on her own and never came back And both of his sons were kicked out by his nanq because they both had a drinking habit. Both of their lives have been affected so much without home both lives in ngo now,my bf’s dad has also faced depression and even left home once, but somehow they managed to find him .There’s no one to talk or explain to his mother. The only person who has a good relationship is his mausi but even she is biased towards his mother because her love marriage was not allowed. Even she is not happy in the marrige

Present situation-me and my boyfriend want to get married, but his mother is against it and creat constant fights in the house. His father is supporting us, but both his nana and his mother manipulates him. Initial she was ready for the marriage and wants both of us to live in a rented house , we agreed to live on rent, but now she’s telling him to leave the house. And never come I think nana is the main cause of all the problems. If he wanted to, he could explain things to his daughter, but instead, he seems to be adding fuel to the fire. My boyfriend’s mosi is also indirectly manipulating his mother because her own marriage wasn’t by choice. Now she doesn’t want my boyfriend to have the freedom to choose his own partner either.