I (31M) have developed feelings for my housemate (26F). We’ve lived together for a year, sharing interests in sports, photography, and art. I started having these feelings around November. Given my past experiences how I’ve been hurt in relationships I’m cautious and have built up a bit of a wall around myself, resulting in me appearing closed of unless you really know me. Our schedules rarely align with her busy lifestyle and my busy lifestyle, making it difficult to connect.

Looking for advice onbuilding a deeper connection before even considering asking her out, considering our different schedules. without making our living situation uncomfortable?

TL;DR: Seeking advice on how to connect with my housemate (31M, 26F) before asking her out, given our conflicting schedules and my past experiences.