I desperately need some advice concerning my husband and my marriage.
Ive been married for ten years and have two children with himm aged 5 and 7 and two children from a previous relationship aged 12 and 14.
The marriage has been difficult from day one, I fell pregnant with my daughter quite quickly after getting married and I noticed a very big decline in his sexual needs. I often noticed he would stay in bed on a morning for longer than usual and he admitted later that he was seeing to himself. The frustration in our sexual life became increasingly more apparent as time grew. I am lucky if he comes near me more than one a month. The longest has been 9 weeks.
I was looking through some paperwork online in January of this year and came across a horrifying amount of gay porn, his facebook page was open and when I looked on it, he had been looking at pages such as ‘my sissy secret’ gay chavs, anal fisting, and lady boys. There was loads of it. Weve talked several times and has admitted he was co fused for about three years, however I dont believe it, I think there is more to it. What do I do? This isnt exactly something you can talk to your famiky about.