I am facing a weird situation in front of me right now.

My neighbour died a few months ago due to cardiac arrest, leaving behind her 42 year old wife and two young children. It has been like 4 -5 months since my neighbour passed away and his wife is also moving on now. She started messaging me on WhatsApp two weeks ago and our vibes matched. We had never talked before, but now she calls me almost everyday and we discuss our lives.

Once while talking, she asked if I was ready for sex with her. She knows I am a virgin and is using my desperation to her advantage. She says she will take me to her second home and our sex will be kept a secret. When I asked if it would be a one time thing or more, she said it would be life time thing. I don’t want to marry my old fat neighbour. She says she will set me up with a young girl from her village from marriage and we can continue our relationship.

We have already shared a kiss and hugged each other (if that is sexual?). I have not seen her naked, but I guess it should be fun. Should I go ahead with this relationship/situationship she is suggesting? Do you have suggestions if I intend to go ahead with her plan?

P.S. I am 30 years old virgin. She is 42 years old. She is fat but fair and beautiful, has huge boobs. I am little overweight, but not as fat as her. Both of us stay in joint families, so maintaining secrecy of our relationship will be difficult.