Am I gay or mentally sick?
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I am a 24 year old male, unmarried. I have a girlfriend and we have sex once a month. My problem is that sometimes I want to get fucked by an unknown male, so that my identity is not disclosed. I was fucked by 2-3 kids when I was 10-11 years old, but at that time, I did not know about sex .They kind of raped me but as we were kids and it was like a game, so I enjoyed it at that time. I do not like men for kissng or touchng or mental suport or as a lover. I love girls. but sometimes there is deep urge to get fucked may be once in 7- 8 months. Last year, I met a guy on the net and got fucked. After that I felt embarrased and did not do anythng again. But now, I feel that urge is developng. Am I gay or mentally sick? Please help.
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hmv,
Is your question about being gay and sick or are you asking us about the morality of having sex with a gay partners? (Your comment: “Should I go for another meet with a man”).
It is obvious that whatever we say, you are going to have sex with another man again.
Homosexuality is not a mental illness. However till 1974, it was considered a mental illness, but is now no longer in that category. At one time, hysteria was considered a mental illness, that affected women. It was later categorised as depression and anxiety.
It is believed that sexual orientation happens in the womb, due to a combination of genetic and hormonal factors. Just as a person is born left handed or right handed but can be taught to write with the other hand, so in sexual orientation. Biologist have also reported that homosexuality exists in the animal kingdom. This means that homosexuality is not a human choice and is not the result of strict parents.
The problem with giving vent to your gay feelings is that your family life will be affected? Are you ready for that?