A few days ago I posted that my husband and my best friend recently started texting. So far there hasn’t been any for real flirting, but it just confuses me on why she would just start randomly texting him?.. Deep down (Because of her track record) it truely bothers me. When we were teenagers she had slept with a old boyfriend of mine behind my back and when I go into a real serious relationship towards the end she started texting him and it cause some unwanted problems which ended the relationship. I can’t help but to think that maybe the relationship I have with my husband, she might be jealous of it. She is dating someone, but their relationship is filled with lies and him being jelous cause early in the relationship she had cheated on him for a long time with an old boyfriend of hers. I have talked to my husband and he told me that it bothers me that he respects my feeling and will stop talking to her. He was really sweet about the whole situation. However, she texted today and it was about me and he texted back. It didn’t really bother me cause I know she was asking him about a season of a show I wanted a while back and she is wanting to buy it for me.. so that I can get over. Its just because of past experiences the whole situation feels a little uneasy. Today it has really been on my brain and he can tell it, he feels like I don’t trust him. I do trust him, I just don’t know if I can trust her. I love him very much and i don’t want this to get in between our relationship.

How can I get over this and stop thinking about it? Or what should I do..?