Anal sex with my girlfriend complaining of pain
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I tried to have anal sex with my girlfriend but she started complaining of pain. So I stopped. She says it hurts too much. Shall I try using a lubricant next time?
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Unlike the vagina, the anal muscles are more tighter to keep things in. The anal cavity is not normally lubricated. Anal intercourse can only be facilitated by suitably relaxed anal muscles; otherwise, there will be pain throughout the intercourse. Therefore, preparation is necessary before engaging in any backdoor fun. First and foremost, gain her approval. Start small by using your tongue and fingers, and then gradually go on to the penis once she feels comfortable and accustomed to the slight sensations of anal intercourse. Give her a sensuous massage to thoroughly relax her body and butt. Stay in constant conversation with her to receive her input on the amount and depth of the massage. Forget about becoming a hardcore; fly banging, as seen in porn, is unrealistic and can cause serious harm. Proceed gently, slowly, and step by step!