Are we doing it the right way?
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I am 24 years female (unmarried), I have a boyfriend and from the last six months we started to have sex. In the starting stage we had sex in the traditional style (after foreplay I lay down on bed, spread my legs and then he fucks me). But after that, after a few sessions he asked me to lay down on my stomach and he inserts a pillow under the stomach and then fucks me from behind. I have no problem in this position, it is infact very enjoyable. But I just want to know is there any side effect with this kind sex?
We also engage in anal sex many times. For anal sex he always uses lubricant on his penis and he rubs oil on my butts and on the anus. Before inserting his penis in my ass, he massages my anus with oil or Vaseline for 5 minutes by putting finger (in and out) till my anus becomes oily and flexible. After that he gently puts his penis in my butt. It is very enjoyable, pleasurable to have anal sex. We do anal sex in the same way (position) as we engage in vaginal sex.
I also want to know is there any harm in this?
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There is absolutely no wrong with the way you guys are engaging in both vaginal and anal sex. The only thing you should see is to use protection against possible pregnancy and any unwanted transmission of STD’s/STI’s.
The sleeping doggy is a very good position to engage in sex since the penetration can be as deep as possible and its a huge turn-on for men since the entire back will be available for their eyes. Starting with the neck, the back and the sexy ass, this position helps in elevating the moods of men to a greater extent and the deep penetration with the use of lube in both vaginal and anal makes the act more pleasurable and enjoyable to women with no sights of pain.
Contrary to popular belief, there will be no side effects by merely having sex in specific positions. Nothing is bad in sex when the partners engaged in it are having a good time. Besides this position there are some other positions which would blow your minds right away, so change the positions regularly to avoid monotony in the long run. The way I see it, I can imagine you guys are having a very good enjoyable sex, so don’t hold back. I presume you guys engage in protected sex, always go in for protection and don’t feed on pills.
You can try pile driver position, where your body would be inverted upside down with your head down to the bed or ground and your entire pubic area exposed, this position also facilitates deeper penetration and the orgasms can be ground breaking.
The reverse cow-girl, here you will have to ride on your boyfriend by facing opposite to him. It is the usual woman on top but here the woman should face away from her man bringing her back to the man’s sight.
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There os nothing wrong in anything you’re doing together. Different positions just add excitement and allow you to experiment with other very enjoyable pleasures.
I’ve loved anal since I was very young and daring (mind you, I’m still very daring now). As you prove, so long as you are relaxed and your anus is well lubricated, it’s extremely enjoyable, and very exciting. I can recommend “doggie style” if you want him to penetrate deeply, but only if it feels vomfortable; like after he’s been in for some time. I can also recommend inserting a vibrator in your vagina while he’s in ypur anus, your orgasms will be the most intense you’ve ever experienced. You should try fingering hid anus too, and if you really want to give him some extreme pleasure, lick his anus and finger it when you syck his cock. You’ll love it if he does the same when he’s giving you oral. Or maybe you’re already enjoying this?
As I say, I’ve been enjoying all the games you can play anally with my husbanf and our girlfriendwithout any health issues; just remember that the sex can be as dirty and raunchy as you bith want it to be, it’s no one’s business what you do, as long as you both enjoy it. Qnd at the end, get nice and clean!!!!
Have fun!!!!!!!!
Salma