Bro saw me having sex and is upset. How should I make him forgive me?
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I am 18 yr old .My family includes me , my brother and my mom.My dad passed away 10 yrs ago.My mom and bro runs the house. My brother is 21 yrs old.
My mom is forward thinking and liberal woman and so do my bro and they never treated me like the society treats the girls here. So I have always had lots of freedom.Long story short I made a bf 4 yrs back and since then I have been with him and a few other affairs that I got myself into out of curiosity. I lost my virginity a few weeks after I met my bf and been active ever since.Since I have always had house to myself during daytime so I started inviting my bf to my home for our love sessions.It’s been like that for past 3 yrs without any problem.
Now, my bro is the coolest and cares for me deeply.I love him dearly so does he. But our relation is pure bro-sis relation , nothing sexual. But we share everything with each other except our sex lives obviously. But I hinted him several times that I have a bf and I am sexually involved with him and he didn’t seem to mind.
A month ago, my bf was fucking me as usual in my room and my brother saw us in the act. He seemed upset.I tried to talk to him following night but he didn’t answer.It’s been a month , I tried everything to have him talk to me again , he just ignores me .I said sorry multiple times and assured him I won’t do anything like that again but he just doesn’t listen.I even involved my mom saying he is angry at me for something but he doesn’t listen to mom also.Although he never showed any sign of anger but I know he is deeply upset.
I tried to find out and my bro’s friend who considers me his sister(he’s really sweet too) told me that my bro and my bf had bad history and my bf once threatened him that he’d fuck his sister and make her his whore.So I asked my bf what’s that. He confessed that it was at the heat of the moment and was just words nothing else.Now I’ve been with him for 4 yrs and he never forced me into anything so I trust him. There’s been a misunderstanding. So I assume that my bro is mad at himself more than he is at me,He probably thought he failed as a brother as he couldn’t protect his sister from the guy who threatened to bang her. I feel so bad for my bro and I am so sorry for hurting him.
I can leave my bf anytime for my brother so I am ready for anything in exchange of my brother resuming normal relation with me again.
PLEASE suggest me what should I do to persuade my brother in talking with me again.?
How should I make him forgive me?
Thanks for any help.
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After reading your story I feel sorry about your brother.it really hurts when someone broke trust .you started having sex at a tender age of 14 thanks to your carelessness of your family.liberal thinking and carelessness are two different things . I am missing those sweet career oriented girl.what happens to this generation.
Liberal parents children’s directly converts into infant to adult.The childhood is missing. You are a horny girl and your boyfriend got the chance to bang you without any convincing.The teenage relationship is all about fulfilling your lust.There is nothing called trust and future between you two. As soon as lust vanished that trusted boyfriend also vanished.
Finally coming to your question about how to convince your brother to forgive you.Dear this is toughest situation for a brother to saw his sister banged by someone.just say sorry to him and leave this matter on time.Time is the best healer but don’t break his trust again.BTW your boyfriend is man of words “I tried to find out and my bro’s friend who considers me his sister(he’s really sweet too) told me that my bro and my bf had bad history and my bf once threatened him that he’d fuck his sister and make her his whore”
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Did I tell you that I am a failure in studies? Have I anywhere pointed out that I was easy to sleep with and bf didn’t have to convince me much to sleep with me?So you imagine all this stuff by yourself. Were you high when you wrote this ?
Ok man here’s the thing, it’s easy to judge others and point fingers at them and I am sure you enjoyed typing these imaginary stuff.To clear your illogical doubts I do have a career plan and I know what I have done.
I didn’t ask people here to judge me on what I have done. I simply asked is there any way I can talk to my brother so that he could understand my pov.
But I am glad you enjoyed berating me. Yes my bf is man of his words , yes I started fucking at 14. But hey I sure as hell enjoyed my life till now but I don’t think you have yours. So keep your jealousy in check. And I pity that your offsprings have to endure your orthodox views for all their lives. Best of luck to them.