Can sharing your partner with others cause problems?
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Hi,
I have no personal experience, but recently my partner said she wanted to see me with someone else in bed other than her. I agreed and also want the same for her as she should also enjoy in this sex act. I know this is the most common fantasy of every male or female partner to see their their other half being having sex with someone other than them.
I was just wondering what the experience is like to know how a person feels when such love making is happening in front of them with the person they love most. Can any male or female, please share their own experiences or their friends who discussed such a kind of activity happened to them.
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You will need to understand and find out why your partner has suggested group sex? Very rarely do women broach this topic and in variably it is the man who fantasizes about this and then tries to experience it. Does your girlfriend have an Ex? This could be a her reason for encouraging you to have sex with another female, so that it will free her of her conscience and she can have sex with her Ex.
There is a thin line between a fantasy and reality. The problem with a fantasy is that you keep repeating it and it soon wants to become a reality. You have said that it is your girlfriend’s fantasy and you would like to know from us, if it is workable?
There are a few areas you need to think about. Why is your girlfriend keen to experience the cock of another? Is it due to watching porn? Is she dissatisfied with your love making and the size of your tool? Is she bored with a one man relationship? You will have to give serious thought about your relationship together. Such experiences are never a one-time experience and tend to take deep root later.
Sex is played out in the head and is more exciting to imagine that the actual reality.
I will not be judgemental. I shall not tell you about the joys of having group sex (lets leave that to your imagination) but shall give you some pointers on its downside.
Jealousy always affects a couple that’s trying to have group sex. Insecure thoughts will torment both of you, if sex hasn’t been good for a while, but becomes mind blowing after the arrival of another person. Questions like “Is she not interested in me anymore?” “Am I just a scapegoat stuck in the middle of these two lusty lovers?” “She wants him with us because he’s better looking and has a bigger cock than me?” “She is kissing him a lot more than she is kissing me, is she falling for him?” will keep playing in your head.
These are just a few of the innumerable thoughts that can race around both your heads, if you involve another person into your bed. You may not like this new man fucking your woman, after just a brief talk or a single meeting. Group sex leaves a lot of room for doubt and sad thoughts.
There are many couples who’ve experimented with group sex and ended up in other people’s beds behind each other’s backs! There is a good chance that this could happen, especially if both are not keen on being with each other for the rest of your lives.
Play carefully.