For the past five years (out of the ten we have been married), my wife’s demands in order to have sex are killing me. At first, she said she was so tired from work she didn’t feel any interest in intimacy. She said if I took care of all the house work, that would help. So now I do everything. My wife wakes up to breakfast ready, her lunch prepared for the day, The dog is already walked, and the house is already clean. I only sleep 5 hours a night in order to wake up early to get everything done while she sleeps 9 hours. And still she says I need to do more to save her energy for sex.
im exhausted. One night I fell asleep at 10 pm. She woke me up and said this was my only chance to make love. I begged her to make love the next day instead bc I was out, and she said I lost my chance for the month.
This isn’t working. is there a better way to negotiate love making?