Do men become aggresive and rough if they don’t get sex for some time ?
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Recently my husband was away for a week . When he came back he was craving for sex. I have never seen him so aggresive. It was a very rough and this was the first time I wanted him to eject quickly. He was moving way too fast was catching my hair and almost choked me. He ejected a huge amount and then just went off to sleep. He told me next day that he was out of his mind and did not do anything intentionally. I also know that he did not do anything intentionally.
But is it that men become so aggresive if they dont get sex for some time ?
I discussed it with my very close friend and she also said that her husband who comes home just once in a month is even more aggresive and she dread’s that moment. She said that my husband hardy did anything rough when compared to her husband although she woudn’t share the details.
But is it that men become so aggresive if they dont get sex for some time ?
I want to know what else does a man do in agressive or rough sex that my friend woudn’t like to even talk about?
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Like all human needs, sex is the most powerful. You will find that when you are hungry, you tend to eat voraciously, rather than when you have just eaten a meal. Sex is like that. When you are on a forced diet, the urge to have it, is greater and is manifested in “rough” sex.
Even if you had sex twice the same day. The first time the man would be more passionate, harder strokes and deeper penetration. The second time the sex would last longer, but it would be more relaxed, not so fast paced. You are lucky. Your husband has been saving his energy for the moment he meets you again. He would be a bit rough, in order to empty his seed into you. As long as his acts do not cause you harm, let it lie. You can patiently tell him later that you did not like some of his acts.
You are wondering what your friend meant by being “rough”. Rough could mean slapping your bum hard when he was having sex from behind. Men love to see the red marks left there, or it could be biting the neck and leaving teeth marks for others to see. It could be blindfolding the partner or even tying the hands to the bed-post and having rough sex. Holding the hair and fucking the mouth during oral sex can also be termed under rough category. All meant to sexcite and have fun.
If your husband likes being rough, surprise him yourself by showing him your other side. The rough side. Pinch his nipples. Tie his hands etc etc. Sex is all about having fun together and not amking your partner feel guilty.