Hey folks!

Most of the posts I see in this sub are about cheating, breakups etc. One of the most common thing about such posts are people ignoring red flags in the beginning and blindly falling in love and suffering later on!

In my case, I (M24) started dating a girl (F23, super hot!) and it went on for 8 months and I decided to broke up!

It was sort of LDR and we we met quite a few times. I ignored a lot of red flags in the beginning like: her anger issues, bad past with ex, habit of doubting, asking for passwords (which I gave of my insta but didn’t got her credentials in return), arguments everyday, making me unfollow girls in insta (which I did but when asked for same in return, she made excuses), begged her to unblock me etc etc.

I was blindly falling in love and tolerated her nuisance; probably I thought the girl is way above my league and I ended up messing up my mental health. However, I got fed up and broke up with her few weeks ago which was shocking for her.

The outcome: I can now focus on myself back again! My mental health is great again.

So folks! Don’t ignore red flags and don’t ever try to change the person. You will end up ruining yourself.