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Hi, I am Rakesh, 23 years old. I and my girlfriend are happy together for 6 months now. We do not hide anything from each other and so we are very open about our pasts. We are yet to have sex and I am still a virgin.
However she had sex with a previous boyfriend. Actual penetration happened only twice but they have been nude together many times and have had oral sex many times and had tried anal once but did not go ahead since she felt a lot of pain.
Initially I was devastated but later on it turned out to be a major turn on for me. I used to enjoy listening to her experiences with her ex. I want to further my fantasies with her like having sex with others and exhibitionism. I moved to the US a year ago and so I think I would have more freedom in expanding the boundaries. My major fantasy seems to be cuckolding. But I definitely would not want to be a submissive boyfriend.
I would like to know if its advisable to let her have sex with many guys in front of me. I would also like ideas on how I could talk to her abut my fantasy. I also have asked her for a role play session about enacting how she lost her virginity with her ex and she agreed.
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If you are looking for a long term relationship with her than you should abstain yourself for asking your fantasy as I think she would not accept your proposal to have sex in front of you with many guys. She revealed her past it was because she might not want to hide anything from you, as she may look relationship very seriously.
There is huge different between fantasy and reality, you are asking to make your fantasy real is not easy task in this process you may even lose your girlfriend. As far as fantasy and role-play are concerned, you may go ahead if she is okay but group sex is not fine and good idea. Lose your virginity to her and do not share your girlfriend to others.
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Just because she has been in a relationship and had sex before does not give you the licence to fulfill your fantasy of group sex and cuckolding. Is your girlfriend with you in the US? If not, how do you intend to having your wish fulfilled? It is too early in the relationship to think of her having sex with others.
Would you have been okay with the idea if she was your wife and not your girlfriend. It is easy for you to think of her sleeping with other men in your presence as it does not involve any effort on your part. Think of the repercussions on her psyche. The stress related with such activity is tremendous and not easy to counter.
Have you spoken to her about this fantasy of yours? What is her reaction? I get the feeling that you do not have the courage to ask her as you know she will turn you down. If you really want to see her having sex, encourage her to have it with her Ex. This way she will feel more comfortable and you would have your fantasy in reality. But you will not do this and the reasons are the same that you and I have. She could prefer the other man to you and that would mke you jealous. Are you willing to cuckold her Ex and lick his semen etc.
There are some things that are best kept as fantasy. This way you hurt no one.
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She had opened her heart to you just to make sure that you don’t have any problem in continuing the relationship with her even after you know that she’s not a virgin!
She told you because she wants nothing to be hidden in your relationship.
That doesn’t mean that she’s a whore/slut, who is ready to sleep around with many people. Please understand that, she’s your girl and not a play-toy. You cannot objectify her for your sensual/sexual pleasures. You always have a choice to rope in a slut for that matter! Even that’s wrong, but it’s their profession.
I am happy that you’ve accepted her and at the same time, your question makes me clench my fists! Sex is not the ultimate thing you can have a girl for. You need to be emotionally attached, affectionate and respect her feelings also. Make her feel special! Never, ever share your girlfriend with anyone for anything!
Cheers!
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Your girlfriend has been honest with you, and please respect her for being honest. Now step back and think for a moment. Why did she tell you about her previous relationship? I guarantee it wasn’t because she wants to be involved in group sex, cuckolding, or any of the things you’ve created in your fantasies.
I assume this girl is still in India, and you intend to see her again in the future. Well, if you start suggesting the sort of things you’re dreaming of, there’s unlikely tO be a future, as she’ll finish up with someone else!!!
Certainly on with whatever it is you went to America for, and if you meet a nice girl while there, get some experiences if your own instead of wanking over fantasies of this girl losing her cherry.The dreams of her being fucked by groups of men while you watch are all in your head, not hers. Even if the thought of such a thing excites her, the reality would make everyone she knows look at her with disgust and scorn, because, five minutes after doing something like that, everyone she knows would read about it on social media.
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This is actually good for u . She will understand these things and help u grow sexually.
Just keep in mind u should try from ur side too..
I myself have experienced this and with some good guidance I got better and better .
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Have fun