My fiancé of 1 year (yes love birds and in madly in love) recently had a bad experience with symptoms concerning herpes….thing is, when ur symptoms go away, they won’t test you because your results could not be positive…therefore things have changed dramatically since then and although I’ve told him well be together no matter what he still feels disgusted with himself…. To too that off… He jacks off a lot, obviously when were away from each other and watches porn… Though when I ask him for sex I get denied and he doesn’t seem so into it… What can I do!!!???