How can I end this relationship with my colleague?
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Dear Anjali aunty and fellow members,
I am Namratha 26 years old female working in a MNC. I come from a very orthodox family and from past 4 months I am having affair with one of my colleague. I dont know how it started but I am not able to break this affair.
There is no love or care in this affair it is only sex. This guy uses me very well and even I enjoy it to be frank but one side of my heart tells to end this relationship as I am sure that I cannot marry him.
At the same time my parents are searching a guy for me and within a year I will be married to some guy. Please tell me how can I end this relationship?
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I would advice you by saying dear..first of all its ur fault..u shouldnt have been in relation with a guy whom u dont love,dont car,etc.
Its crossing limits of ur moral.
Its ok u feel guilty u can make better ur future life..just tell about ur family to that guy how strict they are and also that they are searching a guy for you.
Namratha just try to less the contacts with that guy..avoid going with him..u know very well that he is using u thn refuse him and slowly drop contact with him..do take care before u drop contact make sure that none of ur contents like pictur or photos left with him which can create difficulties in ur future married life..if it is so..delete it with ur sense and then drop contact..
i tried my best to solve ur problem..guide me if i m missing something..Or want more help
Thanking you..do reply with your valuable feedback…
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Marriage without love may be treated as natural, because gradually love develops even with some one totally unknown but wedded with. But sex without love or mutual feeling is just like an animal act. If you are sure that neither you love or care for him nor he loves or cares for you, just stop sex with him any further and await your marriage with an appropriate partner getting arranged by your parents, with whom you can have fully devoted sex and develop love & feelings that would further catalyze your sex life to the optimum, which is termed as a happy conjugal life.
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Why your parents brought you in an orthadox way, Because as you are a female they wanted to see you in good form, with a lot of moral, god fearing, with love for family husband and children and to remain as monogamous. So that you dont enter into any trouble, by a lousy life. But you have broken their prespective when you get the first chance to fuck with a guy whom you dont know well. What a tragedy. I feel pitty for your parents, Who brought you in an orthadox way.
Now from were you got the idea for break up with him, What is the need for breakup when nothing other than sex is there between both of you. Did you get addicted to his cock? So that you cant live without that, anything like that?, Dont worry your future husband will also have a dick and he will make you happy with that If its for any moral fear you need not do that as you have lost it already. Fuck with him till you get married, even you can continue after marriage also.
Once a **** is **** for ever.