How do I (26M) get over someone who was cheating and playing with my feelings?

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Hey guys,

I was in a relationship with a girl for almost a year, during the better part of this year, she was actually engaged, her parents forced ( she says ). Before you judge, I even talked to her sister and tried, i really thought she was the one.

Fast-forward to last month, after she got married, we still met and talked ( bad decision at my part ), I decided to call quits.

Now the problem is, after all that, I got to know she was cheating on me during initial phases of our relationship, when we not “officially” together. Also, from what I saw, she also had intimate talks with her soon to be husband when she was with me ( again my fault, should have walked away ). We both work together, same team, I literally have to listen to her voice every fkn day.

How do I get over it? It’s killing me, I don’t want to think about her. I made mistakes and made some decisions that were bad, I cannot reverse them but how do I forget her ?

Also, how do you shake this feeling of betrayal, I gave my 100% still that wasn’t enough for her to not cheat and bot choose someone else?

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    2024-03-06T07:52:38+00:00

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    OP don’t cry crocodile tears

    You were not in a official relationship when she was seeing other guys

    You were still hounding her when she got engaged, like wtf were you expecting??? Won’t the husband, that time fiance would have hot chat with her??

    Just think about someone else. If you were really interested then should have initiated talks with your parents and her parents.

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