How do I approach my colleague who sees me as her brother?
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Hi Anjali.
I’m a male aged 22yrs. I got hots for one of my colleague at my workplace. She is 33, married with 2 children.Her husband not at home due to some business regarding. She used to go monthly once to her husbands place. She treats me as her brother but I wish to bed her as soon as possble and I’m really growing impatient each passing day. If i talk about her & her husband sex relationship she doesn’t tells anything & she hits me (not in angry mood commonly )
I tried breaking the ice by talking sex not directly though but she has never responded. I had even talked about other peoples sex lives but never tried to talk about hers. How do I have sex with her, please tell me a way.
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I think people like you should be banished because its because of guys like you relationships are taking a strain. Have you got no morals and don’t you know that you should break the trust she has on you by lusting on her? What does it take for you understand that she sees you as her brother? She is 33, probably very much happy with her life and husband, so why do you want to complicate and make things hard for her?
How would you react to know that a pervert just like you has the same feelings for your wife when you get married? Quit thinking about that woman and live your life. Find yourself a girl who isn’t someone else’s girlfriend or wife.
Its time you have some reality check; no she isn’t going to have sex with you because you got a very small wiener as compared to her husband who is pretty well endowed; she doesn’t need you because you’re a kid; and above all she doesn’t give in to you because she has got everything a woman wants- a perfect husband, children and a good family, so time you realize this and come out of your dreams.
Kids like you never grow up and always think married women would fall for you for your style, looks and energy, grow up kid.
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What makes you think you can still have sex with that lady?. Look for man sex is different and for a women its totally different. We humans have a bad quality and that is to ignore point of view of the other person.
You are commiting the very same mistake, ignoring her point of view of treating you as a brother. Another thing is a women will not ask you to fuck her or seduce her. She will just hint you and you have to catch the signal.
So she gave her answer by not responding to your very first step towards sexual relationship. Just face it, she is not in a mood of having sex outside her marriage, and on the top of it she is a mother of two.
I would advice you to stop your advances as it may spoil sane enviroment for the oraganisation you are working for. And it may hamper you image also.
Rather try and concentrate on your work, stop talking to her it will be good for you.