How do I express my love to the girl I love?
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I’m 21yr old male; I’m attracted to my neighbour’s daughter from the last year or so and haven’t got the opportunity to talk to her. 2 weeks back when I asked her for her mobile number, she refused to give me her number to which I was upset.
The next day she spoke to me as if nothing has happened. I think I love her but haven’t been able to get her number leave alone proposing. How do I start a good conversation with her and how do I befriend her? Your tips would be helpful.
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If you really mean you have feelings for her, I would be surprised if you didn’t approach her more number of times in the year long time. Remember this, for a girl to be interested in you, she should know you 1st, so unless she has got a little interest on you she wouldn’t be speaking to you the way you expect her to.
When you try to strike a conversation with a girl, be casual with yourself; don’t get tensed and make a big thing about her, girls love cool guys and would surely turn down shy guys. Be expressive, strike a conversation with her on a day-to-day basis like when you go to college or meet her across the street or some thing like that. Keep your conversation subtle and never let her realize that you’re desperate about her. Have good intentions about her.
If she is interested in you she would feel more comfortable with you and this would be a right time to ask her number. She was right in her defences about giving her number because how do you expect a girl with whom you spoke some 50 odd times in a years time for less than a minute to give her mobile number to a guy she doesn’t know, so get to know her, don’t just be a neighbourhood guy, befriend her.
Talking to women isn’t rocket science; all you need is some confidence and composure. Its just like talking to any other person, but be gentle and polite. If she is responding well to your mild advances and if she finds you interesting whcih you would know, you might go ahead and propose her.
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I would rather say to have patience and not just jump to any conclusion. Girls simply dont like men who just jump in and start expressing feelings. First start with a friendly approach, as right at this point of time you yourself are not clear about your feelings it may just infatuation also.
First introduce yourself as a friend to her and be there for her emotional support. Dont just jump and start claming as her lover. Let her know you and give her time develop feelings from her side.
By your this attitude she will only run away from you and eventually start avoiding you. Such matter are too delicate and any kind of force or pressure may bring unpleasent response from other side.
There is no gurantee that she may come to you or it might be a possiblity that she might be commitied with someone else, in that case move on with a smile and wait for the right time.
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Grow up and atop being so stupid. You don’t even know her, so you might lust after her, but love comes with knowledge of a person’s character and personality, not just because she’s pretty, or got big boobs.
If she didn’t give you her digits, it’s coz she didn’t want you to phone her. And just because she spoke to you next time you saw her, don’t jump to silly conclusions!!! She’s a neighbour, and being pleasant and polite just shows she has been brought up to respect others; it’s not an invitation for anything more.
If you want to develop a friendship, to see if there’s a possibility of a relationship, be nice, polite, and friendly, but don’t be a stalker!!!! When you’re on proper friendly terms, only then, you could ask her for a date. But stop this stupid talk about love, you are in a dream world!!!!!