How do I understand about her answer to my Marriage Proposal?
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Hi,
My parents have arranged my marriage with my cousin (mother’s brother’s daughter). The girls parents are also interested and I too like her.
But, I was afraid to know her opinion because her parents may think something bad about me, so I made my parents to know about her opinion about our marriage in front of me and my parents and her parents .
She have given answer by laughing that let she finshed her B. TECH and still laughing she said that the decision was her parent’s wish.
Now, I am fully confused. What she meant by her statements? What is her real opinion about this proposal?
Please help me. How to understand about her answer to the marriage proposal?
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What did you expect from her to answer you when her parents and yours are in front of her? Girl cannot answer directly on their marriage proposal in front of families so do not think too much about her statement, as it might not mean anything instead she played smart and handled the situation best way by laughing out.
You should have asked her in private to know about her frank thinking. Don’t worry if she has a problem with such arrangement then she will tell her parents and since she is educated girl I am sure she will raise her opinion if she has problem.
However, if you have access to her then you can ask her directly like if you have her whatsapp number or Facebook then text her and ask her opinion in smart way so she would not feel awkward to answer you.
Why don’t you ask your parents to set a date for you both so you can know each other better before marriage and this way you can know her opinion so go on a date with her.
If you demand a date with her then I do not think anyone thinks badly of you. If you like her then go for marriage without analyzing too much her laughing in front of your parents on marriage proposal. One thing I can tell you that she is way mature than you.
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If your prospective bride laughed on the matter of her marriage then you should not think that her laugh was a sarcastic or mockingly laugh. She is still studying engineering and will not be in any hurry of marriage because she might have thought that she will get married after making her career. Perhaps she might have laughed on the hurriedness of her parents about her marriage.
Don’t be in any dilemma and just talk to the girl directly over phone and ask her view on the marriage. If she tells you straightforwardly no then it’s okay, and if she tells you to wait for 1-2 years for marriage, and if it’s possible for you to wait 1-2 years then you can wait otherwise search another girl. She is not a one and only girl in this world.
Best of luck,