How many “Breakups” have you had before you got married?
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This questions is about the number of breakups people have before finally getting married. I myself have had several breakups in the past and sometimes i start finding another girl just to forget the pain of the last relationship. Some of the relationships lasted for few months to a few years.
1st breakup: First love and she ditched me
2nd breakup: she ditched me
3rd breakup: she was not ready
4th breakup: Caste problem
5th breakup: Career issues
6th breakup: Family issue
As a consequences of all breakups, I started taking relationships casually like if one goes another one will come. No doubt it has helped me emotionally to become mature and handle rejections in Life. At the same time it gives you a feeling of insecurity in relationship. I do not know how long this will last!
Has anyone experienced a number of breakups in their Love life and how does it impact your future? Any gyan on this would be welcome.
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It might be possible that none of them is for you. It also might be possible that you fell in love before your relationship got mature. You need to allow relationship to get mature before you start enjoying it like wine. Your break patterns hint that there was no serious love by any means. It would infatuation rather than love. There is fine line between infatuation and love, which you need to draw out.
I would like to suggest you that you should not fall in love before knowing the person fully. Do not look for love constantly and give some time to yourself. There is no need to feel insecure, as you are yet to find true love. You can as well think for an arrange marriage as in numerous cases arrange marriage is the best.