How to break the ” friends only” barrier with girls?
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Hi!
I have a serious problem. I have quite a good number of girlfriends. But unfortunately, they all have friend-zoned me. Ironically the girl whom I am hitting on, says that she has always seen me as a friend and nothing more. I always end up getting friend-zoned, how do I push the boundaries?
Please help me find a solution to this.
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This friends barrier is like the boundary line in a cricket field. this side its a boundary, that side its a over boundary. The girls has a very clear instinct to understand which guy has an intention to cross the line, before even you talk about that, they already know that.
I had a friend like you in my college days, he was tall and handsome. he had everything except he was a trusted girl’s friend. We used to call him staying with girls he is turning to a girl. And in reality almost similar happened, all his behavious, talk, attitude were like girls, he was keen on gossip about who has a crush on whom.
I would suggest to mingle with boys more and keep selected girls as friend, else you will end up more a feminine soon and start sitting on guys. these girls trust you and let you have easy access in their group because they think you are one of the, but a man who is harmless. You cant get a real girl friend from these friend circle.
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If you want to go further with your so call friend-zone female friends then you should have to take initiative as being girls they are not going to take initiative.
First, find a girl with whom you want to go further and then try to find out her opinion about you. Do not jump directly for the proposed. Make a mare friendly relationship with girl, give her importance and make her realize that you are caring about her. You may take the help your friend who has a good influence on her and your good friend as well.
This is something you are asking which cannot be taught. However, you may make yourself prepare for the relationship to some extent if you are really concern for the relationship with girl. You may take the help of specialist you may teach you about girl’s behavior and how to talk with them in positive ways.
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To avoid getting friend-zoned, make your intentions clear to the girl who you’re hitting on. If you decide to play the soft caring friend card, even she would see you as her friend, so to avoid this, let the girl know what your intentions are. Getting friendly isn’t bad, indeed friendship forms a strong base for any relationship, but you need the girl to know what your intentions are.
Drop her subtle hints about your intentions while you’re going out. For instance no guy takes his girlfriend to lunch or breakfast, he takes her out on dinners, even better if they are candle lit romantic dinners. Listen to her but also try to make her listen to what you have to say, it should be a 2-way street. Try to spend some time alone with her, insist on her not to bring her friends along when you wish to see her.
Give her gifts which would make your intentions clear. Girls are smart and they would surely understand what the guy is expecting from the relationship, so if she doesn’t like your advances she would cut you out right away or tell her intentions, this allows you to search for another girl. Lending your shoulder to the girl would merely make you look as a friend; hug her when she comes out to you with a problem, comfort her as a man and not as a friend.
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Folks usually handle such cases in the following way
– First , warn the caller not to repeat it ,
– subsequent call, inform the local police that you are getting crank calls
– the cops will usually deal with him. If the caller still persists, a case can be registered against him.