How to convince an office colleague for physical relations?
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I am a software consultant currently working in a onsite for few months. I am a family man but at the same time have some bodily needs. I have a female colleague who is also married and staying alone. I have developed sexual liking for her and that is making me too much depressed. Lack of romance and sex is hitting my nerves.
I believe my colleague must also be having similar feelings as she also must be missing sex life considering that she is married just 1.5 yrs back. I want to convince this colleague of mine to explore the world of sex with me as we both are in need of this stress buster.
I have tried talking to her about kinky things and issues like missing romance etc. but dont know whether there will be any response from her. I am purely looking at friends in need kind of a situation.
Does anybody have this kind of a experience and how to achieve success in the end?
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Just stop what you are doing and think for a moment. You have a wife at home, she has a husband at home. Would you be happy to know your wife is relieving her sexual needs with someone else? Would this woman be happy to learn her husband is fucking another woman?
Just because you have no self control, don’t assume everyone is the same as you!!! If you really can’t satisfy your lust with wanking over pornography, find a good class escort to sort you out. She will be well versed in whatever kinks and perversions take your fancy, and a simple financial transaction ensures there is no comeback on you. At least you won’t run the risk of either damaging two marriages, or, more likely, getting a reputation as a sex pest which could get you fired (and try explaining THAT to your wife!!!).
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Expert.astonish In the first place One does not have to ‘convince ‘ anyone or someone for sex. May be what you want to say is you want to ‘seduce ‘ this woman.
Apart from the morality aspects of the issue if you really want to give it a shot you can give.
Most important thing here comes in to play is the comfort that she should feel in your company. If you want to score you have to be real charming and friendly, witty when with her.Women like smart, clean, stylishly dressed men. So keep yourself that way. Be a helping hand around the people you associate with you guys. And let her notice .
To begin with you can ask her for going out a cup or coffee and as an advt says ‘ a lot can happen over a cup of coffee’Then you can up an ante a little and ask for dinner or lunch and your proximity will increase and nature will take a lead from there on.
One more thing that i have experienced is most persons would go to do something if’ no one ever comes to know about it’ So being married this would be her understandable concern . So assure her that your such meetings would be always discreet . And once her confidence is built you will get what you have been longing for.
Most important however as others have been saying give utmost care while doing this. And if you at all do anything do it with informed decision. Best of luck.