Hi!

I am 34 years old and married for last 8 years. My wife is 36 years old. We met in the office, where she was already working. I got introduced to her through a common colleagues and got married to. We have two children who are 4 and 2 years old and after second child wife has left the job.

I have a fantasy of watching her having sex with other man. This hidden Desire is there since before we got married.

I spoke to her several times about this and she agrees, if I talk to her during having sex, but later she avoids this discussion.

Earlier, I was very good at sex, but recently, I have detected high blood pressure. The tablets which I have, are causing me erection problem and our sex life has become very less. My wife urge for sex, and most of the time I have to satisfy her either by fingering or oral sex.

Finally, I was able to convince her for having another sex partner. She told me to find out myself. In our company, I found a guy, who was always interested in my wife when she used to work. He is still single and of same age of her. But she keeps on refusing to have sex with him. She says, she prefer to have sex with complete stranger rather than him.

On other side, I don’t feel comfortable with stranger guys as it can create more complication. I find this guy suitable as he is her good friend and I often find him flirting with her when ever we met over a party or dinner.

Please suggest how can I convince her for that guy.