How to handle embarrassing situations like this?
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I am a Member of AA. Last week, I had an embarassing situation. I had a meeting with a Female client. In the middle of the conversation with the Female client, I got an erection and this was clearly visible to her. This was a really embarrassing.
How would you all have dealt with such a situation? How do women react when this happens?
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Such instances are common in every mans life. It could be quite an embarrassing situation, but it all depends on how the woman you are with, handles it.
A sudden erection can happen involuntarily too and you may not be thinking about sex, specifically. Even women are prone to such occurrences and their nipples may harden, but unlike men this is not so visible.
So, what can you do in such situations?
One would be to take your mind off the situation. Think of some problem situation. Most likely your erection will vanish.
You could try putting your hands in your pocket and pushing your erection down to your thighs. Your hand will cover the erection.
You could try hiding your erection by sitting down or standing behind a desk or with a book. Crossing your legs will also help to hide the erection. If you have a laptop or bag, use it to cover up.
One of the best ways, is to excuse yourself and go to the bathroom. There you can decide whether you want to masturbate and relieve the tension or you can remove your shirt outside your pants.
Finally, if you have the courage and the woman is known to you, ask her to help you out, by doing you know…what.
Jillu, you have not told us what were your companion’s reaction.