How to overcome sleep after intercourse ?
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After intercourse my wife feels very exhausted, especially after a lot of movement and activities on my side; but I want to continue pleasuring my wife. Even I also feel a bit sleepy.
Which body parts of her should I concentrate so that she gets relaxed quickly and I can overcome my sleep? My penis becomes extremely flaccid and dry after intercourse.
And one more thing I wanted to know about anal sex.
After a lot of lubrication and going inch by inch I finally managed to get my penis inside her anus . But I couldn’t penetrate deeper since it caused her pain. How to accustom her with the movement of the penis inside the anus ?
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dipak,
Why do you want to challenge the Laws of Nature? After sex, it is very common to feel tired and fall asleep. A lot of physical energy is exerted, as you, yourself has said, and the chemicals that are released during sex when she reaches orgasm makes the body go into sleep mode.
When a man reaches orgasm, a chemical called prolactin is released. This is a feeling of sexual satisfaction which causes sleepiness and drowsiness. This drug was tested on animals and it was found that they become tired immediately. The reason why a man cannot have a second round of sex immediately is because this chemical is high in the body and until it reduces, it may be difficult to have sex again.
A point to note is that prolactin levels after orgasm are 4 times higher than those after masturbation. So masturbation may not make you so sleepy as sex.
Another chemical called oxytocin, that is released creates bonding between partners and promotes love and trust. It removes fear and anxiety and since the body is relaxed, partners feel tired and want to sleep in each other’s arms.
Yours seems to be a strange case, as it is the man who gets tired after all the thrusting, as he has to move physically during sex, while a woman need not do much, other than lay on her back or go for a ride!
Most sex acts are done at the end of the day, when it is night, and so it is natural for the body to feel tired. Try changing your time for having sex. It may help to have sex early in the morning, when you both have had a good night’s sleep.
Scientists believe that this drowsiness for a man is a natural evolutionary process. The prolactin prevents a man from running off with another partner or jumping into another woman’s bed! You decide what could be the reason.