How to tease my boyfriend’s flatmate?
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My boyfriend has this fantasy of me getting all physical with other guys. There is this roommate of his whom he showed my naked snaps by hiding my face and that guy is totally obsessed with my body and both of us enjoy his comments on the pictures. I am visiting my boyfriend next week and will be staying with him and his roommate for some of days. How to tease the guy without saying anything directly? I am open to any thing he wants to do after that :P. I cannot tell him that those were my pictures, so give me any idea; both I and my boyfriend want it so it won’t be a problem. One more thing, it shouldn’t look like I want to tease him it should look like I am not doing it on purpose, I want him to make the first move.
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You are playing with fire here, and the chances are that you will get burnt.
How much do you care about each other? If you love each other, don’t risk destroying the relationship because you think it would be “a bit of a laugh” to tease another guy into making advances toward you.
I must admit though, I don’t think your boyfriend has any respect for you, and is a very immature person if he thinks it’s cool to be showing your naked pictures to anyone else; and how much respect do you have for yourself for agreeing to this stupidness?
So, assuming there’s not much worth saving in this relationship, why not let him catch you masturbating with a large cucumber, or let him see you and boyfriend together, with you sucking his cock? That should tease him I think; and who knows, while you’re giving your boyfriend a blow job, maybe the room mate can do you like a dog from behind? I think that would be a result of your teasing him.
If you want to open Pandora’s box, you need to be prepared to face the consequences of the unwelcome things that escape (look it up in wikipedia if you don’t know the myth of Pandora’s box). Unless you are absolutely sure that you want to take such risks,DON’T!!!!!!!
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Your guy has no issues whatsoever with you fooling around with men, wow that great!! Is he pimping around you or what? SO you’ve no issues with sleeping with multiple men when you’re in a relationship, then. Good for you.
You can pretend to just walk in naked/semi-dressed where ever he is at and pretend you got no idea he was there and just bring that matter again and again asking him to forget it. Get close with your boyfriend when you’re sure his friend is watching you people. Try making noise while having sex, so that he can hear you. Dress in a seductive manner and act innocent, the way some do, being sexy and innocent both at the same time, men tend to like it. Provoke him in ways he just can’t keep himself off you. After all women are experts in teasing, so you needn’t worry on it.
This is the point where I should actually stop because I’ve pretty much answered your question, but please do clarify me a few queries of my own.
What kind of relationship are you people in, what does your guy expect from you, do you see yourself with him in the future or is it just sex, what if your boyfriend asks you to sleep with all his friends, will you go ahead and be his pet or will you repulse? What is your limit; do you have any idea what it is called to have sex with no limits? Having various relationships before settling down is one, while what you are planning to do is different; you’re literally whoring for your boyfriend who has this sick fantasy.
A word of caution, go have sex with his roommate but dump your boyfriend and then do it. It serves a great deal.
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Somewhere in your comments, you have said that you have not yet found the perfect Answer. We cannot give you an Answer that would suit you. As impartial Advisors, we can tell you the consequences of your act, the rest is up to you.
Are you only into some harmless teasing or will you go to whole hog – sex included. Presently you are confident that your relationship will survive. Are you sure that the equation will not change after marriage? Threesomes are great to imagine, till they actually happen. Once you have sex with your boyfriend’s best friend, what stops him from having sex or even flirting with another woman? What will be your reaction then?
Jealousy always is around the corner. What if your flirt has a larger dick than your boyfriend? You think that will not haunt him? Sometimes lust is more powerful than an emotional attachment. It is also possible that you may like to meet later when your partner is not around.
Finally, the thrill will wear off, and you and your boyfriend will look for new partners to join you in bed. The threat of sex with multiple partners is fraught with danger. HIV and AIDS does not distinguish between people and class.
It is your life. Think wisely.
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You are a confused girl. You dont know what you want and why you want. And seems you lack in practical knowledge.
You said you and your boyfriend are having trustworthy relationship, getting engaged next month and can do anything he wants. If he asks you to sleep with other men where he can make money pimping you, would you still call that a trustworthy relationship?
You said twice you wont mind having sex and once said you want to tease him but wnt fuck him. What is exactly in your mind? Read all your posts, you will find your words, I am not copy pasting here.
Thirdly, a marriage is a marriage, which is legal binding. A boyfriend/girlfriend is not abide by any legal bindings. He maybe there supporting you today, tomorrow he maynot. And you cant do anything about that. Go up there, get fucked in two holes by two guys and the next morning called as a whore and dumped. Dont trust that much unless there is a legal obligation.
I dont think anyone would suggest you anything that will help you. Means, what you have decided to do, you will do that. Then why asking us? For tips? We are not here to give tips like these. We want to see people happy with there life, not heart broken with any suggestion given by any members.
Your life is your life, we should not interfere. I can assume what the consequences is going to be. You will seduce the guy, have sex and your boyfriend will change his trustworthy color saying he wanted only teasing, not sex. Before getting married if you can sleep around, what you will do after marriage. You will be all shattered. But in case he is happy with your sex with the roommate, there are two possible options, one is he is going to use you in future for earning money, and second is, he himself is having same sex affair with his roommate, you are just a tool, a sex will ensure you can be formally be dumped.
WHatever you do, be sure there is no camera hidden, your life will be more painful after that. And dont forget to use condom.